What is a BDSM test and why should you take it?

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Love Kinky Memes? Time for a BDSM test

A BDSM test is basically like a ~sexy~ Myers-Briggs personality test.

 

Hello friends, welcome to a safe and sexy place filled with all the knowledge, wisdom and experience from your sisters from another mister. If you are looking for wisdom and insights on all things sexual wellness, then you have come to the right place. Today's menu? Two words: Test BDSM.

Let us introduce to you your starting point on a journey of self sex exploration. This BDSM test is a low-key kink personality test, call it the BDSM personality test, that will show whether you are submissive, dominant and whether you have any primal fetishes 😏. Ready? Ok let's go. 

First, what is the meaning of BDSM?

BDSM's meaning is an acronym used to describe six components of sex:

  1. Bondage and discipline
  2. Domination and submission
  3. Sadism and masochism

Some might think that the meaning of BDSM is rough and kinky, but there are enough cases that show this does not always have to be the case. BDSM's meaning can also be a safe and consensual play to explore your and your partner's kinks that will spice up your bed room and sometimes are mere acts of turn-on rather than any harmful activities. 

Although you might have taken some inspiration from Fifty Shades of Gray, there is an entire plethora of BDSM personalities and activities that look and feel nothing like the sexual BDSM play between Steele and Grey. 

BDSM's meaning is also about communication with yourself and your partner than it is about Red Rooms of Pain. SSC (Safe, Sane and Consensual) and RACK (Risk-aware Consensual Kink) is BDSM's formal verbiage to explain the mutual agreement between individuals for BDSM.

To get a conversation started between you and your partner, the BDSM (kink) test is a great tool to venture into a world of pleasure, bits of pain but foremost adventure to safely learn what you each like in the bed room (and beyond).

What is a BDSM test?

The BDSM test or BDSM quiz was introduced in early 2014 and goes a step further than the regular Sex Personality test as it will quiz you on your kink, primal fetishes and overall submissiveness. 

The BDSM test is free, thorough and kind of like a Myers-Briggs test for sexual personality types. The BDSM test results can be interpreted as an inspiration tool for yourself and your partner in the bed room.

What type of questions are asked in the BDSM tests?

The BDSM test is a list where you are asked to rank various sexual acts, attitudes and sensations that you enjoy giving or receiving, and the level of control you like to take/give in a relationship and how you feel about role-play. Questions in the BDSM test that occur are for instance 

  • Do you enjoy behaving like a child?
  • Do you love being tied up with zero control?
  • Do you enjoy hunting prey?

Also prepare for BDSM test questions that go deeper on psychological level. BDSM can go further than the eye reaches. 

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Why should I take the BDSM test?

Just like any other tests, by taking a BDSM test you will explore more of yourself, do personal reflection and perhaps come to conclusions you never would have reached yourself. The BDSM kink test is for everyone who has an interest in learning more about themselves and their sexual preferences

Taking a BDSM quiz can also help ease feelings of sexual shame or insecurity. “By taking tests such as these with your partner, you learn so much about what you might have in common but have been too afraid to talk about,” says Goerlich, whose clients often say they feel embarrassed or ashamed of what they want to do sexually.

  • Often, many of us feel awkward, sexual shame or insecurity. By taking the BDSM kind test you learn what you will have in common and perhaps have been too afraid to talk about
  • The BDSM test is a great conversation starter for you and a new partner, even if you do not feel ashamed or insecure. We suggest waiting with pulling out the BDSM test till at least date #3, but if we’re asking about love languages, astrology signs and foreboding messages, why not take a BDSM test?
  • The kink BDSM test can give revelations on sexual preferences and provide direction for sexual partners to explore (more) 
  • For the ~experienced~ dominatrixes among us, a BDSM test will help you find something new to try in (or out of) the bedroom
  • For couples that are looking for something new, the BDSM kink test can suggest things to spice up your sex life and give room to explore each other beyond the "usual"
  • A BDSM test provides as great way to start if you don't know where to start
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BDSM Barbie Meme, she even has her own little Wand :)

 

"This test can help a person understand their kinks and possibly permit them to explore them. I like that the test gives you a scale to choose from [with each statement] and also gives percentages [with your results]. This can help you honor your 10 percent dom and settle in your 80 submissive,"
says Howard. "You definitely can't know where you're going [sexually] if you don't have a place to start." - Shamyra Howard, sexologist 

What do these results mean and implicate?

Once you finish, you’ll end up on a page that shows off all your results, which is basically a list of which BDSM archetypes you align most with on a percentage scale from 0 to 100. Find below The Oh Collective's member BDSM test result.


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BDSM.org's BDSM test results

As you can see, the BDSM test results give you direction in what you might (not) like. Our team member definitely is more of a Fifty Shades of Grey-light dominance and submission to master/slave than fancying the master-slave and caregiver-little pet play. 

Wait, what is Brat?

In BDSM, a brat is defined as “someone who wants to be put in their place by a dom in the form of discipline because they’ve acted bratty, acted out, or misbehaved,” explains relationship coach Carmel Jones, sex expert. While the brat is a sub, the brat might push back or act demanding and shout orders to their dom in the hopes of triggering them to discipline them more harshly in a way that caters to their fantasy of being reprimanded in a sexual way - Carmel Jones, relationship coach & sex expert in an interview for Cosmopolitan

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Where can I take a BDSM test? 

BDSMTest.org and MojoUpgrade.com are the two biggest BDSM test sites to take your BDSM kink quiz. 

The first BDSM test, BDSMtest.org, is the OG BDSM test. It is quite lengthy but thorough and gives you test results as shown above. Good to use to gauge your individual preferences. 

MojoUpgrade.com is a BDSM test you can try together with your partner at the same time. Test BDSM allows couples to separately rate their sexual interests, then at the end, groups everything you both agreed on into a list to explore and play with.

BadGirlsBible also offers a BDSM Kink test that is shorter, in case you want to triple confirm your level of submissiveness 🙃.

Gotten intrigued and want to take one more, it's weekend,  there's a pandemic, so why not 🤷🏻‍♀️, try the SexualAlpha BDSM test.

I took the BDSM test, what now? 

Sex and sexuality are complex. So consider the BDSM test an invitation to look deeper and explore and understand your own sexuality and desires more. BDSM kink tests and quizes are amazing tools to gain insights and deep-dive into your (and your partner's) psyche, but use the BDSM test results as inspiration. They are not psychological assessments that are 100% validated and reliable, but it can push you in a very good direction. 

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