If you have watched the tutorial "How to make her squirt", you know it's more than just technique. It's an invitation to deep connection, trust, and sensual safety. Now let's talk about how you can bring that tutorial to life.
Key insights from the tutorial
the tutorial emphasizes several core elements:
- Emotional safety and relaxation are foundational - if she doesn't feel safe, the body won't fully let go.
- Building arousal slowly, paying attention to her responses, communicating, and trusting the process rather than "quickly making it happen".
- G-spot stimulation, pelvic floor awareness, and helping the nervous system relax to allow release.
Basically: it's not a quick trick - it's about mindset, connection, and pleasure.
Step-by-step tutorial
- Set the scene together - dim lights, pick a playlist, talk lightly. This aligns with the tutorial's emphasis on emotional safety.
- (Optional) share a piece of sex chocolate about 30 minutes before you begin. Use this time to connect, kiss, explore. The chocolate will support blood flow, relax the body, and heighten sensitivity, making it easier to make her squirt.
- Communicate and explore - check in with her: "How does this feel?", "Do you like this motion?". You are not executing a performance, you are creating connection.
- Focus on sensation rather than pressure - use the tips from the tutorial on G-spot stimulation, pelvic floor release, etc. But remember, the goal isn't to "make her squirt at all costs", it's mutual pleasure, connection, and exploration.
- Aftercare and acknowledging the moment - aftercare is important - comfort, cuddling, and emotional connection.
Important notes
- Not everyone squirts - and that's perfectly okay. It shouldn't be treated as a "goal" or measure of success.
- Consent, trust, and communication are essential.
- Sex chocolate is a compliment, not a magic bullet. It enhances conditions but doesn't replace connection or technique.
Final though
Combining the tutorial's guidance with sensory boost of sex chocolate gives you a powerful, connected, and playful experience. It's less about pressure and more about transformation - turning intimacy into ritual, pleasure into presence. So next time you are preparing for a deeper evening of connection, grab the tutorial, and give yourself the time and space to explore, feel, and enjoy.